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Sunday, August 3, 2014

Is True Love Worth Fighting For?

Perhaps love is one of the things people mostly need in their life, a thing we all know, without which, life would be dull and ensnared. If dug deeper, there is another so-called sub-topic, which is quite more interesting and even more needed and complicated. TRUE LOVE! 

Does that true love really exist? You call, people. Personally, I think it does. I mean I have seen some couples fighting hard and struggled backbreakingly for their love and brought out the genuine, real authenticity essence of that four-letter word. 

Sometimes, a true love is all about the belief you hold in head. If you do convince s/he is the one, let's heart up and give it a fight those heart-weakening obstacles. If you do further your thought, another question may arise: how do I know s/he the one? Well, sometimes such dumb question can be only answered by your only self. And, only you. YOU, yeah, I mean!

If you do have really watched the legendary of its kind, The Notebook, you probably are having the same inspired effects and belief that true love do exist and is worth fighting for. Though, Let's shut the window for deeper thoughts on "true love" for now here. 

Again, your call on that topic, people! Call wisely, thoroughly and attentively. I'll quote a nicely-crafted, albeit heartbreaking, conversation from the movie. 

Young Noah: It's not about following your heart and it's not about keeping your promises. It's about security.
Young Allie: What's that supposed to mean?
Young Noah: [yelling] Money. He's got a lot of money!
Young Allie: You smug bastard. I hate you for saying that.
Young Noah: You're bored Allie. You're bored and you know it. You wouldn't be here if there wasn't something missing.
Young Allie: You arrogant son of a bitch.
Young Noah: Would you just stay with me?
Young Allie: Stay with you? What for? Look at us, we're already fightin'
Young Noah: Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.
Young Allie: So what?
Young Noah: So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.
Young Allie: What easy way? There is no easy way, no matter what I do, somebody gets hurt.
Young Noah: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants? Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do YOU want? What do you WANT?
Young Allie: It's not that simple.
Young Noah: What... do... you... want? Whaddaya want?
Young Allie: I have to go now.
In the end of the movie, we all know, they two, Noah and Allie, live through till old, sickness-visited age. They have proved (Nicholas Spark, the great author, actually) nothing would stop them to earn this love, which they feel inseparable. They even die on the same bed, hugging one another. Basically, therefore, true love does exist despite the I'm-poor-and-you're-rich financial incompatibility. It's just a movie, though  yet awesome Nicholas Spark has done a very good job. 

Let's enjoy another story for the following music video. 

To which my first impression upon watching is: that's it, true love? and the guy should really sarcastically thank the man who, in the meaning of the song, has come to look after the girl who came to him, after all, to announce the end of their love. Don't get me wrong! I'm not blaming anyone; not the girl, of course. Imagine that's true in real life? What is that that does erode the genuine, real authenticity of true love? 


After all, it's your life, people, and it is your call to validate TRUE LOVE and THE ONE. Do consider time when you are trying to decide; true love and the one might sometimes leave or dissappear along time. But, if so, that ain't true love and the one, huh! See? It is complicated! Don't assume so far. It's just a blogpost, heh! 

Good lucks and take good care of yourself and the environment around. Be a less selfish person even you know your choices are going to hurt quite many a person yet if those choices just reasonably and morally make you happy, I guess the we-respectively-go-for-ourselves-first concept shall apply. 

Ending quote: Love is a constant battle between the heart and the mind. True Love is when they agree.

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  1. Replies
    1. nope, not yet and don't aim to be one either. It's, after all, just some thoughts....